SURVIVOR MODE - If You Are An Abuser
by Winsome Alexander on 07/24/10
If you are an adult having a sexual relationship with a child eighteen or younger; stop it right now! Not only are you committing a crime, you are destroying a child and making a pit of hell for an innocent person as you traumatize then emotionally.
Like any addict, your urges might be overwhelmng as you find yourself doing the wrong you don't want to do but stop and think - God did not make you to be a child molester so where did this evil impulse come from? The enemy of your soul came looking for whom he may devour and discovered a template in his workshop called your mind. He stencilled those thoughts on your consciousness, and then you willfully carried them out. Yes, wilfully because you made a decision to do the wrong you know you should not do and each time you gave in to the compulsion, it became more difficult for you to control yourself.
As a sufferer of the ravishes of sexual abuse myself, I am here to beseech you to return to your original self; to your own innocense and strength in Christ. Return to your original gifts. Begin to walk upright in the righteousness of the gifts God put in you when He created you. Those evil haunting spirits will leave you as you become reunited with the truth of who you are. The urge to desecrate the life of a child will die because your new focus will be doing the will of God for your life. God will become alive in you causing you to die to your evil lusts.
Now, I command you to apologize even in spirit to every child you have hurt. Ask God to blot out your transgression, to give you a new heart and a right spirit and vow never to touch another underaged person ever again.
SURVIVOR MODE
by Winsome Alexander on 07/15/10This is a great way to communicate with survivors of abuse. As we develop this site we will bring information, tips, resources and encouragement to those adults who feel like they have been forgotten just because they are adults.
Do Not Neglect The Gifts In You
by Winsome Alexander on 06/21/10
Do not neglect the gifts that are in you-
Give yourself to them that your progress may be evident to all-
Take heed to yourself and to the doctrine-
Continue in them for you will save not only yourself but all who hear you.
(1st. Timothy 4:14)
'TIS THE SEASON TO SUPPORT ADULT SURVIVORS OF CHILD ABUSE
by Winsome Alexander on 06/21/10
Dear survivors and supporters,
It has been a wonderful year for OUTSPOKEN Magazine and we want to thank all of you who have taken the time to get to know us.
As the Christmas season is upon us please bear in mind that a child somewhere out there is being abused this very hour and some are dying as a result. The fortunate ones who survive the trauma live with the after effects for their lifetime and as uncomfortable as this is for us to accept, it is real. These problems in our world won't go away just because we chose to prentend they don't exist. Only with courageous confrontation and the determination to make a difference will we be able to change things. Get on board and help break the abuse cycle.
Our newewest issue of OUTSPOKEN Magazine will be in distribution by mid September and will cover Oct. - Dec 2010. In this issue we celebrate the beautiful gifts and talents inside survivors and supporters alike. We hope that this will encourage all of you to look within the gifts God gave each of us to find your purpose and use it to as a tool for healing healing. God Bless and Merry Christmas!
